Dear readers. It is with a heavy heart that I write this. 2018 has seen some significant losses of meaningful lives. Sadly, that toll increases again.
In October this year, my wife of 10 years passed away unexpectedly, at home. No chronically debilitating illnesses being fought off, no sudden acute onset of horrible afflictions, just here one day, gone the next. Words could not express the deep sorrow and profound shock we experienced that night, and in the days and weeks that followed.
I count myself incredibly blessed to have been loved by her. She loved so deeply and so fiercely, pouring out her generous heart to those who would take the time to truly know her. The day we said “I do!” was the happiest day of my life. She had a contagious laugh and a smile that could light up the room, even when she was hurting, sometimes more than anybody knew. It gives me some small comfort that she no longer feels any pain, but is surrounded instead by joy, light, and love.
She was a sensitive soul, leaving a little bit of herself in every life she touched. She was an empath, which means she would often know how you were feeling before you did. She felt the emotions of others, magnified in herself, and was an amazing listener, who could always be counted on for comfort and support.
The holidays were her favorite time of year, specifically Thanksgiving and Christmas. So today, on the heels of our day of thanks and the toes of the season of giving, I encourage you with two things.
First, be thankful for your loved ones, your family and friends, and most of all your children, if you are so blessed to have them. Life is so precious. Spend it with those you love, and do not waste any moments.
Second, give of yourself unto others, be it time, money, helping hands, a listening ear, or a friendly voice. Put forth light and love into this world, not darkness or hate. Emanate joy and kindness, not malice or bitterness.
And above all, cherish each day, for our time here is never guaranteed.
May you ever walk the beaches of paradise, May you dance along the sunsets, And sing until the end of eternity. You are forever loved, and always in my heart.
It’s that time again kids! Today (which is now yesterday), I saw Peppermint at the local cheap-seats theater. Aside from being surprisingly uncomfortable compared to the plush recliners of the deluxe place, it was a nice bit of nostalgia. There was almost nobody there. Frankly, I’m not sure how they’re still in business; their operating costs must be absolutely minuscule. But hey, works for me, $4 movies! Let’s get to it, shall we?
Revenge is Fun to Watch
Call me a sucker for a good revenge flick. Even more so when the protagonist is a badass woman. I don’t get into the really graphic “rape-revenge” stuff like I Spit On Your Grave and its ilk, but in general, if you’ve got a leading lady kickin’ ass and taking names to avenge some injustice done to her or her loved ones, I’m game.
And the user reviews agree with me, but the critics decidedly do not. That’s typical. Critics look at lots of deep facets of film-making, but the average audience just wants to be entertained. Are there a few moments when it’s difficult to believe the character, or the lines feel just a tad forced? Sure. Are there some bits where perhaps we stretch reality just a bit? Of course. But it’s a damn fun movie to watch, as Garner takes out one gangster or corrupt-cog-in-the-justice-machine after another.
Jennifer Garner’s Appeal
Speaking of our leading lady… I’ve never seen Alias, so you’ll forgive the lack of comparison. I did see Elektra, which, although a pretty bad movie overall, at least showed that she could convincingly play a tough action hero, even if that particular character was over-sexualized. Obviously that was 13 years ago, but her age plays well as the seasoned, slightly weather-worn mother, who can still whip herself into better shape than the cartel thugs half her age, dispense her vigilante justice, and look good while doing so.
It’s purposeful, and effective, that she does not show skin or become a sex-object at any point. That’s not what this is about, nor should it be. She’s all business, and that business is bloody, brutal, and filled with sharp objects and shotgun shells.
The Bad Guys (and their deaths)
One of the best parts of a revenge flick is seeing the imaginative or poetic-justice-esque ways in which the hero deals death to those that deserve it. (Yes, I’m using those terms “hero” and “deserve” loosely and in the context of the film itself, not engaging in a philosophical debate outside the world of the story.)
While some of these are lackluster, especially for an R rating, there are few that really shine. The judge, a sort of Kevin Spacey lookalike, gets it good with nails-in-the-hands and a courtroom-sized explosion. The three shooters are strung-up by their ankles on a ferris wheel, the process and lead-up to which, I feel, would have been even more interesting to watch than the end result. And there are at least a few fantastic head-shots that you’ll just want to see for yourself.
As I said, given the rating, I do think the film makers could have gone darker with some of the kills, but overall, we get what we came for. It feels very similar to Taken, for obvious reasons (same director), and that’s a good thing.
Sadly, and seemingly more often these days, the trailer showed some sequences and dialog that either didn’t make it into the movie, or misrepresented it slightly. The titular ‘Peppermint’ moment isn’t there, at least not with the same impact; and a couple of the more badass-sounding vengeance lines are diluted by too much context or a lack of ‘oomph’ in the background score.
But again, that’s Hollywood. The trailer’s job is to make you desperately want to see the movie, and they often succeed. So we can’t blame them too harshly. The film is gritty, well-made, and compares favorably with others in its genre.
Speaking of trailers, they played one for Glass, a really intriguing upcoming crossover-continuation of Unbreakable and Split, from everybody’s favorite writer-director name to purposefully mispronounce. If you haven’t seen either of those, do yourself a favor. (McAvoy is phenomenal in the latter.)
Conclusion: one solid thumb up
If you enjoy watching a tough female lead, seeing bad-guys get their comeuppance, and following a story through to the end, this movie is for you. Even if you’re not generally a J Garner fan; she really does well with this role, and there are no hints of her typical rom-com personality sneaking in. It’s a good solid ride with a satisfying conclusion — exactly what you want from a popcorn vengeance flick.